"What you MUST understand about your Past to achieve what you WANT the next time round"

FREE TELESEMINAR
with Susan Savery and Special Guest Expert Francine Kaye - The Divorce Doctor

Tuesday 25th August 2009 8.00pm (3.00pm US Eastern)

(Please note these calls will be recorded and available for those who register)

I am so excited that Francine has been able to find time in her busy schedule to join me in bringing you the best ideas, tips and hands-on advice on how to cut through the pain and indecision that nearly all of us go through at the end of a relationship, so that you too can come out the other side knowing exactly what you want for your future!

Francine Kaye, 'The Divorce Doctor', is a trained councellor,relationships coach, family mediator and parent effectiveness trainer. Francine regularly appears on Channel 5's The Wright Stuff and is called in as an expert to numerous radio and TV shows. She writes for Woman and Home, Prima, Psycologies, Grazia, Zest and Womans Health and is Author of the book 'The Divorce Doctor' You can find out more about francine here: The Divorce Doctor

During this call Francine will show you how to implement the 3 essential keys to getting over your past and creating your ideal life and relationships.

You will learn how to:

* Understand what happened, why it happened and how it happened.
* Know what to look for in the future - your rules for your ideal relationship
- they might not be what you think they are!
* Have the courage to say what you want and get it!

If you are ready to break through the barriers that have been holding you back which keep you in the pain of your past relationship then dont miss out on this great one time only call! Register your FREE place here

The 3 most important steps to maintaining your self respect in a relationship.

Do you find yourself in the same types of situations or relationships again and again, or is one of your fears that you don’t want to repeat old patterns and end up in the same situation but with someone new?

Or perhaps you are currently in a relationship and you are wondering why you keep ending up in the same place and going round in circles. Here are three ways in which you can re-evaluate what’s happening and make conscious changes for the better.

1 – Be honest with yourself

Only you can decide what you want to change and the only person that you can change is yourself. It has been said that the definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing over again and expecting different results!

Often we know what we don’t want more than what we do want and this can also make you feel like a victim when that is what you think you get. Get really clear on what you do want. Trust your intuition and make choices based on what you know deep down inside will make you feel good about yourself. Being honest with yourself will help you to reset those boundaries and make the changes that you want

2 – Take responsibility

It can be all too easy to allow yourself to feel like a victim of circumstance or other people, but when you do this you are effectively giving up your power and individuality to someone or something else. In some circumstances you may find that there are hidden benefits to playing the role of victim, but essentially; you are not a victim – you play a part in all relationships.

Accepting your part in the relationship, is a huge step towards releasing your own power and individuality and when you take a look at how you are feeling and what your behaviour has been; it will help you to see things from a perspective that will enable you to make changes for the better. Decide what is acceptable and set clear boundaries for yourself as well as others and when necessary discuss these honestly.

3 – Change the way you treat yourself.

If you don’t treat yourself well, how can you expect others to do so! Invest time and energy into yourself and take a long hard look at the things that you say to yourself. If you don’t feel that you are worthy then you will put up with bad behaviour from other people, and again it is about taking responsibility for what you are projecting. So start with you, show some appreciation– until you know what you are worth – you can’t expect others to. Never look for someone else to complete you – complete yourself.

For more ways to learn from the past and create the life and relatiosnhips you want for the future why not sign up for my FREE teleseminar series